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What advice would you give a YOUNGER crossdresser
Here is the story of a Crossdresser I'm accostumed to hearing: - A young boy starts experimenting wearing women's clothing at a young age - Shame starts to creep in…
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Alan’s Day Out
I don't know how this one slipped under my radar, but Lynn gave me a heads-up about a femulation article that appeared in the August 2001 issue of Marie Claire. In that article, actor Alan Cumming, who has a history of femulating in various roles on te...
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Womanless Pinterested
Womanless beauty pageant winners, Sulphur (LA) High School, 1987Please excuse my lack of blog posts the last few days. I had two freelance projects to do, which occupied most of my free time the last four days.I finished the projects yesterday and now ...
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Primary Femininity ( Crossdressers and Transgender Women)
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| Like Mother, Like Son |
Boys Should Be Girls
LOS ANGELES ― A University of California psychoanalyst says all little boys start life by wishing they were little girls.
This thesis, voice by Dr. Robert Stollar [sic], contradicts the theory of Sigmund Freud, who concluded that all little girls subconsciously wished they were little boys.
Dr. Stollar [sic] told a meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science that it was "only natural that all babies would want to be girls because the mother, not the father, is the parent with whom they identify first.''
The doctor says he has treated hundreds of male patients who had trouble switching their ''gender identity" as they grew older. Earlier in life, they had all wanted to be girls, he said.
If this is indeed true, then TVs and TSs are the only people in society who are following their normal God-given urges!I looked the doctor up and found that he's Dr. Stoller, not Stollar. Wikipedia expands a bit on what the Drag magazine article said.
Drawing on his extensive research with transsexuals and new advances in the science of sex, Stoller advances his belief in "Primary Femininity," the initial orientation of both biological tissue and psychological identification toward feminine development. This early, non-conflictual phase contributes to a feminine core gender identity in both boys and girls unless a masculine force is present to interrupt the symbiotic relationship with the mother.That fits me perfectly, like a size 14 dress!
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| Wearing A.B.S. by Allen Schwartz. |
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| Abraham Placencio as Angelica del Rio, Kenneth Ansloan as Joan Crawford and Matthew Bubb as Marilyn Monroe on stage in The Joan Crawford Marilyn Monroe Christmas Show (1997). |
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I’m Batgirl
My favorite comic book superhero was Batman. Whereas the other superheroes had all the super powers, Batman had all the cool gadgets, a cool costume, headquartered in a cave and used the bat for his symbol ― can't get much cooler than that!
Pop worked in the comic book factory that printed the Marvel line of comic books, but he had to have a kid who preferred a character from a competing line of comic books. I appreciated the Marvel superheroes and read many of their books religiously, but Batman was always Number 1.
Fast-forward to Halloween 1995 and in honor of my favorite superhero, I attended my support group's Halloween party dressed as my version of Batgirl. I recently unearthed and scanned photos from that Halloween and here they are ― most of them seeing the light of the Internet for the first time.
Pop worked in the comic book factory that printed the Marvel line of comic books, but he had to have a kid who preferred a character from a competing line of comic books. I appreciated the Marvel superheroes and read many of their books religiously, but Batman was always Number 1.
Fast-forward to Halloween 1995 and in honor of my favorite superhero, I attended my support group's Halloween party dressed as my version of Batgirl. I recently unearthed and scanned photos from that Halloween and here they are ― most of them seeing the light of the Internet for the first time.
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| Wearing Brahmin. |
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| Robin as a voluptuous Marie Antoinette in a 1946 installment of the Batman And Robin daily comic strip. |
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Crossdresser Accessorizing
That archive contains a lot of information that I find halpful as I present as a woman. For example, whenever I buy new clothing, I visit the website of the store where I bought the new item and grab images of the item I purchased.
That is a simple matter if I purchased the item online, however, if I purchased the item off the rack at a brick and mortar store, it might take a little searching to find an image on the website of the store or designer. (Often, searching on the item's SKU is a simple way to locate an image.)
I use these images to help me accessorize the item when I wear it. What kind of jewelry goes with the dress I just bought at ModCloth? What color shoes go with that dress? Should I wear nude or color stockings or tights?
I am not religious about it and I often accessorize with a scarf, which is an accessory that seldom if ever appears in these images. However, the source of these images are pros, who know what looks best with the item they are trying to sell than, so I often follow their suggestions.
By the way, I also save images of any wigs that I purchase to remind me what my new do is supposed to look like on my head. And I do not save images of undies that I purchase ― I do not compare favorably with lingerie models!
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| Wearing Tory Burch. |
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| Dave Castiblanco |
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Have You Seen Your Brother, Baby, Standing in High Heels?
Commenting on the “Moaning Lisa Smile” post, Beverly wrote,
I’m not sure, but I think the first use of a trans person in a music video was The B-52’s “Love Shack.” My trans-radar always went off when I saw that video. Then I found out the video was the debut of the tall woman of color with the huge hair. A local Georgia girl named Ru Paul who was a friend of the band.
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Muddy Water
My status at work changes on a weekly basis. If you have been following my soap opera,you know my boss was let go two weeks ago. She was a great…
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Crossdresser Transgender Events Diva Social Party Partners Cafe New Haven CT Monthly Parties
So recently I had the pleasure of hanging out with my fellow sister and member of the “Cool Hair” Club Heather Leigh, who throws a Monthly Party for the TG/CD Community up in New Haven Ct called Diva Social. I sat down with Heather to get all the information on the event. If you are anywhere up in the North East, this is a monthly party you should definitely make plans to attend. Here is all the info…
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Makeup Matters (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)
"Why Makeup Matters to Transgender People — and How the Internet Is Helping" is a very interesting article written by Rachel Lubitz, which was just posted on Style.Mic. “The relationship…