Misconceptions on Crossdressing ?

Misconception 1: Crossdressers Begin Their Behavior in Adulthood

Some people who simply do not understand the act of crossdressing cannot fathom the idea that the need to do so begins at a young age. It is easier for these types of people to assume that it begins in adulthood. However, the truth is that for most people, especially men, begin to feel the pull towards crossdressing at a young age. Many male children, some as young as 4 or 5 years old, start wearing women’s clothing as a dress-up game. In some cases this behavior stops as they grow older, and in others it continues on into adulthood and becomes a lifelong behavior.

Misconception 2: Crossdressers are Made and Can be Cured
There is no solid proof of this, research is going on towards a genetic predisposal to crossdressing, which brings us to the second part of this misconception. Crossdressing cannot be cured and is not something that needs to be cured-unless of course the individual wishes to stifle their behavior.

Misconception 3: Crossdressers are Drag Queens that Look Like RuPaul
While all drag queens crossdress, not all crossdressers are drag queens. Queens are in a separate category altogether. The typical crossdresser wears the same type of clothing typical women wear; nothing elaborate.

Misconception 4: Crossdressers are Homosexuals and Do Not Like Women
Some homosexuals do crossdress, not all who crossdress are homosexual. The truth is that the majority of Crossdressers are married men who are as attracted to their wives as any typical man. According to many Crossdressers there are several advantages to being a straight crossdresser. The number one advantage is that they tend to become more understanding and sensitive when it comes to the women in their lives. So for some, crossdressing for some men is a way to get in touch with their feminine side and fully experience life.

How to Make Your Own Natural Breast Enlargement Lotion


It is only natural for women to care about the size of their breasts. Having big breasts is a way to make a woman feel sexy and feminine. The most common way for women to increase their breast size is by having breast augmentation surgery; however, this can be expensive and even dangerous. Fortunately, there are breast enlargement herbs that can significantly increase the size of a woman’s breasts.

While consuming breast enlargement herbs is the most common way to use them, there may be some women who find it difficult to include these herbs in their diet. If this sounds like you, why not make your own herbal breast enlargement lotion or cream? Making your own is often much cheaper than buying breast creams online. Plus, you can control exactly which herbs is used and how much.

If you’ve ever felt self-conscious about the size of your breasts, you are not alone. To find out about the natural breast enlargement methods that can increase your breast size by up to two cups, naturally and without surgery,

The simplest way to make your own natural breast enlargement lotion is to purchase herbal extracts in a liquid form. You then take a few drops and mix it into your favorite body lotion. You can add as much or as little as you wish. The best recipe is one part herbal extract to two parts lotion.

Instead of using a lotion, you can also mix the herbal extract with vitamin E oil, cocoa butter, or almond oil. Any type of homemade herbal lotion will normally last for about 30 days. It is better not to make larger quantities that will not be used up in this time period.

Although you can just rub the lotion on your breasts, you can add to the effectiveness of the herbs by using the lotion for breast massage. That way you will get the additional benefits of breast massage, and you also will get more benefit from the herbs themselves. You will be rubbing  the herbs more thoroughly into the skin, which will help absorption, and you will also probably use more lotion.

Quick Tips for Cross dressing

– TAKE IT SLOW : don’t hurry up and mess things up. Take time to learn things one at a time and be
good at it. A good mascara always tell crossdressing

– RELAX : let loose and just be yourself. You are trying to discover your inner feelings and at the same time have a great time

– SMALL THINGS MATTER : work on the details. They really matter a lot. This is what will really tell how serious you actually are about the whole thing B)

– NEVER PANIC : this is the most common mistakes that cross dressers make. Be confident to pull it off, Don’t rush bold, be gentle n firm. Boost your feminine side and reflect outside.

– DON”T OVER DO IT – Nothing is good really if you do it too much. The presence just drops cold on the floor and breaks. Keep it clean and simple.

Got Boobs?

Hey Girlies!

Don’t get me wrong, I love the fact that I look feminine but sometimes it just gets frustrating when people say “What’s the use of you looking fem when you don’t even have boobs!” so annoying and humiliating right? Well, I found a way to overcome that.

I found this website called www.feminization.us which sells crossdressing items like clothes, suits, boobs, down to vaginas! I decided to go minimal first and since my concern was to get boobs then I decided to try out their female breast forms first.

The breast forms were silicone in nature which made them feel and look really soft. The nipples were just erect enough to show the illusion of arousal. Also the tapes weren’t difficult to use since you basically just stick it on your chest area. And voila, instant boobs!

I had a sweaty back so it was a bit problematic since the tapes tend to lose their hold but I found a way to combat that. I used powder! I would apply a generous amount on my skin first then place the boobs in place. That last for about 4 hours at least. Even with heavy heat I did not feel uncomfortable nor did I had the need to make midday adjustments.

Overall, I give the female breast form a 4/5 stars in terms of use and appeal. I just wish it had something like a sweat control formula to make it more stable in times of “heat” if you know what I mean.

Definitely gonna keep my “boobs” for further use and flaunting.

See others of my reviews about crossdressing products at http://blog.feminization.us/

breast form
breast form

Photo tips for crossdresser


  1. Do apply make-up in the lighting you’ll be photographed in so it’s not too heavy,” says Factor. “For natural light, avoid sparkle — it accentuates fine lines and ages you.”’
  2. “Do use a light-reflecting concealer (like Make Up For Ever HD Concealer) to combat undereye shadows,” crossdresser says.
  3. “Don’t wear too much blush,” and blend it in really well.
  4. “Do use an anti-shine product to keep skin matte. Oily skin looks shinier in pictures taken with flash.”
  5. Do cheat the camera.” Stand sideways, cross your legs to slim the body, and twist your shoulders to face the photographer. “Definitely don’t stand dead-on,” transgender advises.
  6. Don’t chew gum. You’ll get snapped mid-chomp.”
  7. “Do mind your posture. Confidence shines through in every photo, so bring it!”

10 Super Simple All Natural Beauty Tips for crossdressers

The world would have us believe that there are no simple and inexpensive natural beauty tips and source) And according to a UK survey, women will spend well over a year of their life applying that makeup. (source) Ouch. That, of course, says nothing of the toxic chemicals so commonly found (with almost zero regulation) in beauty products. Yep. Seems like the world is telling us that we need to spend lots of time, lots of money, and risk our health to be beautiful. Don’t believe it. For starters, let’s get real about the idea of beauty. To me it’s about unmasking the real person, not covering it up. And there are lots of simple ways to thank your body, feel more beautiful, and not have to pay an arm and a leg for it. Here are just 10. They are easy. They are all natural. And yet, still luxurious. Enjoy.crossdressing

tricks. What makes me say that?  Well, did you know that the beauty industry is a nearly $300 BILLION dollar empire? And that the average woman spends about $15,00 on just makeup in her lifetime! (

10 Simple All Natural Beauty Tips

1. Banana and Egg Hair Treatment

Looking for a little more shine in your hair? Simply mix one egg and a mashed up banana. Apply it as a thick paste to your hair and leave it on for 10 – 30 minutes. Wash it our doing your usual hair washing ritual (if you usually use a store-bought conditioner you’ll probably only need to condition the ends). And voila!

2. Moisturizing Nail Treatment

Soak your nails in olive oil for five minutes. And then sit back and admire your pretty hands.

3. Simple Honey Face Mask

Raw honey is naturally anti-bacterial and a super quick way to get soft, beautiful skin. Once a week use a tablespoon or so of raw honey (not the processed stuff parading as honey) and gently warm it by rubbing your fingertips together. Spread on your face. Leave on for 5 – 10 minutes and then use warm water to gently rinse it off and pat dry. Then bask in the glow of your honey-awesomeness. This raw honey is awesome, by the way.

4. Apple Cider Vinegar Clarifying Shampoo

For those who are using commercial shampoos: To help eliminate any build up in your hair, mix ¼ cup organic apple cider vinegar (like this) with 1 cup water. Follow with your usual conditioner.

5. Elbow and Knee Exfoliate and Skin Brightener

Cut an orange in half and rub it on your elbows and knees. Helps soften those rough patches. And it smells good. (Rinse off the sticky mess when you are done.)

6. Gentle Body Scrub

Mix a 2 to 1 ratio of olive oil and sea salt to make a quick and effective body scrub. This helps get rid of dead skin cells creating softer, more glowing skin. And this natural beauty tip is much cheaper that expensive store bought  body scrubs.

7. Easy Deep Conditioning Hair Treatment

Want super soft, hydrated hair? Use melted coconut oil as a deep conditioning hair and scalp treatment. Massage coconut oil into your scalp and then work it through your hair. Leave it on for a couple of hours and then wash it out using shampoo (no need to condition unless you have really long hair and then maybe just the ends.) Note: For you no ‘poo-ers keep in mind that coconut oil will saturate your hair with awesome goodness… that can be really hard to get out with just baking soda and *some* natural shampoos. You may want to try just a little coconut oil on a little section of hair and see if you can get it out before you do this. Otherwise you might have really greasy (but soft!) hair for a few washes. NOT that I’m speaking from personal experience of anything (*cough*).

8. Simple Toxic-Free Shaving Cream

Use coconut oil on your legs as a natural replacement for your shaving cream. Talk about a simple, natural beauty tip.

9. All Natural Black Head Removal

Place 4 or 5 drops of raw honey on an open lemon wedge. Then rub the lemon on your face for a minute, emphasizing any trouble areas. Leave the mixture on for 5 minutes and rinse with cold water. (Keep in mind that citrus can make your skin photosensitive so it’s best to do this before bed rather than before going outside).

10. Dry Brushing for Better Skin

Dry brushing is a simple detoxification process for your body. It stimulates a number of organs through a gently massage. It also helps the lymphatic system, eliminates dead skin coatings, strengthens the immune system, can eliminate cellulite, stimulates the hormones, and can help tighten skin through better circulation. Best of all, it’s cheap and easy. Learn more about dry brushing and how to do it here. Here’s a great skin brush to get you started!

Take Care

Remember, the best beauty secrets are not quick fixes. They require good sleep, stress managementproper nutrition, and physical exercise. While all these little “gems” above can provide some oomph to your beauty routine, remember that real beauty is a result of taking care (or “thanking”) your body on a daily basis. And by being you. Because you are beautiful. Tell me, what are your “go to” beauty tips?