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In the past, when my only outings en femme were support group meetings and Halloween parties, I was not fooling anybody, so there was no need to make an effort to pass.
Not that I looked like a guy in a dress – I have always been a perfectionist, so I learned how to apply makeup, style wigs, and dress to impress. Yet, passing was not important because my public forays were next to none, so what I did then worked.
However, as my outings en femme increased, I realized that I had to do better. What worked at a support group meeting would not work on the streets of Gotham City.
My weight has always been on the heavy side with 20 pound swings from one year to next.
I decided to end the roller coaster ride. I lost a dozen pounds and two dress sizes. For the past few years, I have managed to avoid the 20 pound fluctuations and have lost even more weight since then.
Now, there are 2 or 3 pound fluctuations and they set off an alarm to alert me to watch my diet or my figure will suffer.
In addition to a smaller dress size, losing and maintaining a lower weight had some other benefits.
Gone are the uncomfortable heavyweight foundation garments. Comfortable and lightweight Spanx-style support is all I need these days to create the semblance of a girlish figure.
Also, my toes got thinner! Before I lost weight, the fourth and fifth little piggies on my left foot were not getting along. They overlapped, which caused friction, discomfort, and severe irritation. It was so bad that I planned to see a doctor about the problem.
After I lost weight, the toe problem went away. I assume it was a combination of thinner toes and less weight pressing down on those toes.
Whatever – my feet are happier in heels these days!
|Andrej Bičan femulates on the Slovakian version of television’s Your Face Sounds Familiar.|
Some things never get old.
After doing my hair and makeup, that first reflection of a woman I see in the mirror.
Being referred to as “she” and “her” while I am out among the civilians.
Wearing high heels.
Hearing the click of my high heels.
When a gentleman holds a door open for me.
Touching up your hair and makeup in the ladies’ room.
When a civilian female engages you in conversation.
Smoothing the back of my skirt as I sit down.
Carrying a purse.
Taking my compact out of my purse to touch up my makeup.
Being called “Ma’am.”
Even better… being called “Miss.”
When a complete stranger stops to say, “I like what you’re wearing!”
Realizing that while I am presenting as a woman, it comes so naturally that I don’t have to think about it.
|British soldiers femulating on stage in Forces in Petticoats, circa 1952.|
The future is female, so as my blogging friend Juan once said, “Gentlemen, put on your skirts and high heels, fetch your purses, and head to the future.”We may not all be women soon, but I believe that in the future, being a male woman will be as accep…
|Source: Amanda Hawkins’ TG Toons and Artwork|
This cartoon from Pinterest makes me chuckle because something similar happened to me.
One spring day, while I was walking on Fifth Avenue in New York City, a group of young males approached from the opposite direction. As I passed them, one of the males remarked, “Dyke.”
He had no idea how good that made me feel!
I am a big fan of your site. I look at it every day and I love the yearbook collection, especially the pictures from the 70’s when I was in high school. I never participated in a womanless pageant so it’s fun to live vicariously through the pictures.
Is there an easier way to see just the new photos rather than going through each letter of the alphabet and then going to the end of each album? In the past, you had one large collection with the most recent photosat the beginning, so it was easier to see the new additions. No matter what, Thanks for posting them!
flickr made some changes and the other option did not always work reliably, so I decided not to mention it. Maybe it is working today, so if you want to try it, click here and hopefully the newest pictures will be at the beginning of my Photostream.
Readers ask me how to support the blog monetarily.
One way is via Amazon. Some of my blog posts have links to Amazon, for example, here is a link for Avon makeup wipes. If you click on the link and purchase the makeup wipes or anything else on Amazon, the blog receives a percentage of your payment.
That is a very painless way to support the blog; you get something you want or need and the blog gets something, too.
So, support Femulate! And thank you in advance.
|Wearing Elizabeth and James.|
|Zac Efron femulating in the 2017 film Baywatch.|
My perspective of the world around me is heavily influenced by being a transwoman.
A few days ago, one of the e-mail fashion newsletters I receive (The Cut) featured an article titled, “I’ve Started Dressing Like My Mother.” You can guess what came to mind when I read that title, whereas a civilian would likely interpret that title very differently (and correctly).
While I was touching up my makeup in the ladies’ room at UConn on Friday, a young woman remarked, “I love your earrings!”
After I thanked her, I laughed to myself because I was wearing a big old pair of clip-ons, which I am told are so old school when compared to the pierced variety.
My friend Diana is active in various LGBT organizations and as a result, she gets to attend GLAD’s annual “Justice for All” reception in Hartford. The reception attracts many of the makers and shakers of Connecticut’s LGBT community as well as Governor Dan Malloy and other state politicians.
Diana invited me to attend the reception. Of course, I accepted her invitation and am very excited about the prospect of rubbing elbows with the Governor, who has been a big supporter of trans and gay people.
So what does a girl wear to a Sunday afternoon reception that the Governor will be attending?
|Still femulating at the 2017 Night of Stars in Austria.|
In the past, I recommended baby wipes for removing makeup. After all, if it’s safe enough to use on a baby’s bottom, then it should be safe to use on your face.
Friday evening, when I was ready to take off my makeup, I discovered I was out of baby wipes. I remembered that in the recent past, I had acquired a package of Avon makeup wipes that had been bundled with some other cosmetic products I had purchased.
I found the package and used three wipes to remove all my makeup including my eye makeup and the foundation and powder on my neck. The wipes did a better job than baby wipes. With baby wipes, I always had to use Avon eye makeup remover on my eyes, but the makeup wipes handled my eye makeup without any added help.
That sold me on makeup wipes.
By the way, after removing makeup, I always moisturize and you should, too.
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When I did my “Makeup Basics for Trans Females” presentation on Friday, there was one tip that surprised a lot of the girls in attendance, so I thought I would pass it on to the girls who read Femulate, too. It is no big revelation. It is something I learned long ago – probably during my first makeover. I assumed it was common knowledge, but my assumption was in error, so here it is.
When you apply foundation, make sure you also apply it to anything contiguous with your face that will show. That includes your ears, neck, and whatever portion of your breasts and shoulders that will be visible. Otherwise, there will be an odd-looking mismatch between your face and yours ears, neck, etc.
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During my presentation, the girls were curious about what brands of cosmetics I use. Since I am an Avon representative, I use a lot of Avon products, but I do stray away from Avon for some of the makeup I use.
Here is a list of what I use currently (in the order I use them).
Moisturiser – Olay
Eye Shadow Primer – Urban Decay
Foundation – Make Up For Ever
Contour – Marc Jacobs
Blush – Avon
Translucent Powder – Laura Mercier
Eyebrow Pencil – Avon
Eyeshadow – Avon
Eyeliner – Avon ( I use black eyeshadow with an eyeliner brush)
Mascara – Lancome
Undereye Concealer – Avon
Lipliner – Avon
Lipstick – Avon
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|Wearing By Bazaar.|
|Femulators at the 2017 Night of Stars in Austria.|
Friday, I attended the True Colors Conference and presented “Makeup Basics for Trans Females.”
The site of the conference is the UConn campus in Storrs, Connecticut — one of my life’s happy places — and it is always wonderful to return to my alma mater.
My presentation was at 1:15, so I did not have to get up early and rush to Storrs. Instead, I even had time for breakfast, dressed and left home at 9:30 arriving on campus an hour later.
I wore a dress rather than pants as I originally intended and I don’t think it made much of a difference during the five-minute walk between the parking garage and the Student Union. What I really needed was a hat. The wind was so blustery that I thought my wig was going to go airborne, but I made it indoors in one piece.
(Fashion Note: I wore my black laser cut dress from Avon, nude pumps from Payless, fake white fur jacket from Fashion Bug, nude thigh high hosiery from Berskshire, big beige bag from Avon, jewelry from Napier and Avon and a variety of unmentionables.)
Indoors, I checked in and received my presenter’s package. The first round of presentations were underway, so there were not many students moving through the building. I took advantage of the low level of activity to camp out in one of the Student Union lounges to go over the presenter’s package and review my presentation. I found a window seat with a nice view of the quadrangle between the Student Union and the Benton Art Museum.
It is one of the few open spaces remaining from my days as a student on campus in the early 1970’s. Most of the other open spaces have been taken over by classrooms, dorms and sports facilities (when I was going to UConn, we launched model rockets and played touch football in the space now occupied by the garage where I parked my car). That’s progress!
After doing some paperwork and going over my presentation, I thought I was in an excellent spot for a photo, but I did not see anyone I knew to designate as the photographer. A woman seating nearby was reading texts or e-mails with her iPhone, so I figured she would be a good candidate to take some photos with my iPhone. So I asked and she was very happy to shoot me.
Just as she began, one of my long time trans girlfriends, Angie, came into the lounge, called me “Beautiful” like she always does and that put a big smile on my face that is evident in the photos I posted from the conference. (It is amazing the difference between a posed smile and a natural smile.)
As the time for my presentation approached, I found my assigned room and settled in. Thirty-two people showed up. They were all school-aged (middle school through college) and I thought that some of them were already gorgeous and did not need any help from me; they could probably teach me something. It turned out that one of the “gorgeous” girls works part-time at Sephora. I asked her a question about lip gloss that she was happy to answer, so “they” did teach me something!
The presentation went well. There were questions, answers and a lot of give and take, but I don’t know. I wonder how valuable it is to teach teens and twenty-somethings makeup basics and tricks that a 66-year-old transwoman uses? Some of what I do is applicable, but I will have to make some adjustments to my presentation for any future young audiences.
After my presentation, I attended my friend Diana’s presentation on post World War II trans history. One goal of her talk was to counter the popular notion that there was no trans advocacy until recently. Her presentation showed that there was a lot of trans advocacy throughout the post-war era including Stonewall, where trans peeps have been written out of some histories of that uprising.
Diana and I planned to dine after her presentation, so we left UConn and rendezvoused a half hour later at a restaurant in Manchester, where we have dined after the previous two True Color Conferences. The big difference this year was that the conference was on St. Patrick’s Day, so the restaurant was busier than after past conferences.
Our waitress was the same as in previous years and she was as affable as before, but this time, instead of referring to us as “ladies,” she called us “girls.” That was different in a good way and made me smile.
After dinner, we went our separate ways and I arrived home at 7 PM, a little tired, but very happy after a productive day out.
|Wearing Tumi luggage.|
|David Walliams (right) femulating in an advertisement for television’s Britain’s Got Talent.|
Model Name : Anmol Sehgal
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