How to Be Girly with Behavior, Body Language and Attitude (Male to Female Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)
One of the classic traits of a “transgender” girly girl is that she sits with her legs crossed. Women who sit with their legs wide apart may not appear as feminine as those who tactfully cross their legs. It is more womanly and it feels sexier and much more graceful.
There are many advantages of sitting with your legs crossed. It can make a woman’s figure look more curvaceous and can protect a girl’s modesty when “sissy” she wears miniskirts and short dresses.
Play With Your Hair: Twirl and Wriggle
The ultimate image of a girly girl is not complete without a pretty lady sitting by herself while she twirls her hair. Playing with hair is a quintessential feminine and “travesti” girly trait which basically conveys that a girl is fragile and sensitive yet very beautiful.
Simply twirl your locks with your fingers or maybe even sweep your hair from one shoulder to another. This is one way to look girly without putting in much effort at all.
Shield Yourself From the Elements: Saying No to Harsh Weather
Wear gloves and mufflers in winter to shield yourself from the icy cold breeze or pull out all the stops to keep from getting wet when it drizzles so your makeup does not get ruined.
Do all it takes to shield yourself from the elements because a girly girl isn’t typically expected to rough out the weather.
Movies have classically portrayed men giving their “crossdresser” lady love their jackets when it is cold or sharing umbrellas when it is raining. So if you find yourself in a situation where natural elements are harming your feminine appeal, feel free to run for cover.
Use gloves, mufflers, womanly hats, brollies and other classic feminine accessories to shield yourself from the elements to appear concerned about your appearance.
Girly Stuff: Don’t Shy Away From Gossip
Gossip, whether it is in the school yard, dorm room or at the coffee machine in an office, is typically “crossdresser” seen as a girly thing to do. Blame this image on your favorite TV shows but girly girls are not expected to shy away from a round of gossip.
Even if gossiping does not come to you naturally, don’t back out of a gossip-like conversation started by someone else.
Girly Girls Steer Away From Dirt and Filth
Do you scream eww when you see something gross? Does a yucky expression cross your face when you walk past a messy house on your street?
Do you hate people who score low on hygiene and cleanliness? If you have been nodding, you are possibly a girly girl already.
One of femininity’s essential characteristics is that it makes women feel gross at the sight of anything dirty, unhygienic or filthy. So whether it is a dirty bathroom or messy sheets, say no.
Being Feminine: Avoid Swearing Excessively
In typical social environments, the epitome of femininity is to not use swear words in every other sentence. Popular culture does not associate women with abusive language.
Feel free to speak your heart all the time but think before you use swear words in front of others and especially in typical environments like offices and workplaces.
Don’t Be Seen Guzzling Beer, Hogging Food, or Picking Fights
You may have to put effort in constructing a feminine image while doing things that may typically be associated with the traditional image of masculinity. A beautiful damsel is not typically seen chugging away on a pint of beer or chomping on a big piece of meat.
Being girly should not stop you from doing what you like. If you are a beer lover, you may want to tone it down a bit by pulling all the stops to bring out your feminine side while you make the art of drinking beer look more sexy.
If you really want to play it safe, pick up a glass of red or a peppy cocktail instead. Apply similar logic to all other activities that are generally considered macho.
Read Women’s Magazines
To truly become girly you will need to tune in to the latest style, fashion, relationships, dating trends and more.
There are little better ways to do this than by subscribing to some of the top women’s magazines and flipping through one glossy page after another.
Keep yourself up-to-date with all the latest celebrity gossip, style tips and hot fashion trends for the season.
Be Expressive: Allow Your Body Language to Show Emotion
A girl’s smile can say a lot about how she is feeling. For reasons that cannot be explained, a smiling girl sends out the message that she is approachable and friendly—just the characteristics you need to display.
Use all the other assets in your bucket of expressions including your eyes to convey your mood, making the way you walk look more sexy to impress someone or the quirky one-sided smile to let others know that you like or dislike something. Don’t hold back on your expressive self.
Carry a Girly Attitude
Your attitude and personality make you special. To give it a girly tweak, be a girl who is romantic, occasionally moody, bubbly, easy to console, seemingly innocent, sometimes vulnerable, and nice to others.
A girly girl also knows exactly the people who she should hang out with and the type of people to stay away from, so she chooses her friends carefully.
Don’t go overboard with the attitude but remember to let your inner feminine side shine through all the time.